Few days ago when I was at office. As a human, I was going
towards washroom, but suddenly, I heard that someone was crying inside female
washroom, obviously she was a woman. She was crying loudly. For a moment, I
thought “I should go inside and ask her ‘Why are you crying?’ but due to some
unwritten and undeclared rules of human society”, I could not do that. Although
during these moments, I pretend as if there is a mute sound. I keep continue my
steps towards my destination. In return, I again passed through female washroom
and that woman was still crying. On the distance of few steps, there was a
coffee machine. Although I want to help that woman but I don’t know why, I went
to coffee machine and took coffee. I sat there and start listening to sounds
that woman made. I heard and analyze her crying sound for two-three minutes.
Suddenly, few people from housekeeping staff came there and take her on
wheelchair.
I predict there was nothing serious with that woman. While I
analyze crying sound of that woman, I found that woman was actually communicate
with me, without saying even a single word and even I couldn’t see her. She was
wave the message that “I am in trouble, call someone to help me”, again and
again. As a human, I could understand her ‘unspoken words’. Until that moment I
never thought crying is also important part of life.
A baby often cries to keep his/her mother busy. When a baby
cries, people don’t take it seriously as they know the reason of cry which may
be thirst or hunger or to attract other people. A baby cries with whole heart
and as loudly as he/she can. I can’t understand where they store so many tears
in their small body. Heart and body of a baby are pure as they recently came
from god’s home. That’s why their tears are also pure. Why a baby cries when
he/she born? May be he/she didn’t want to give pain to his/her mother, but
he/she is giving. Crying is way to apologize to his/her mother. But after few
days, most of babies forgot the pain his/her mother bear during time of birth. Parents,
family members and all others become happy when a baby can walk on his/her
feet. But later they realize that now the child has more reason to cry. Now
child may be cry due to fell down on floor, strike with furniture or anything
like this.
Our childhood pass while we were crying for something and
laughing after got that thing or until tears become empty. Until childhood,
most of the people have same kind of reasons to cry. But as time pass, reason
changes. Reason gets complex as life getting complex.
Some people can cry without tears. Crying is not a physical
act, its emotional state of a person. We never cry, actually our heart cry.
Heart is a link between body and soul. While crying it feels like some fluid
from heart come out from eyes in form of tears. Those who can absorb or burn
that fluid into their body can cry without tears. Those people cry for longer
time, say for hours, days, months, years or sometime for whole lifetime. They
are crying even while it seems that they are laughing. Not everyone can
understand their tears.
How long one cannot cry? Everyone has to cry in his/her life.
Crying is as necessary as laughing; this is one of the peculiar truths of life.
Most of the people feel much relaxed after losing their tears. May be, sacred
fluid from soul through the heart clean ‘dirt’ inside them. Oh! That’s why
tears are salty.
Crying should not be consider as the physical act, this the
way by which soul express itself.
Always remember, without soul we are just piece of meat and
bones.
Always cry truly.
Don’t forget to smile.
