Life in tears..

Few days ago when I was at office. As a human, I was going towards washroom, but suddenly, I heard that someone was crying inside female washroom, obviously she was a woman. She was crying loudly. For a moment, I thought “I should go inside and ask her ‘Why are you crying?’ but due to some unwritten and undeclared rules of human society”, I could not do that. Although during these moments, I pretend as if there is a mute sound. I keep continue my steps towards my destination. In return, I again passed through female washroom and that woman was still crying. On the distance of few steps, there was a coffee machine. Although I want to help that woman but I don’t know why, I went to coffee machine and took coffee. I sat there and start listening to sounds that woman made. I heard and analyze her crying sound for two-three minutes. Suddenly, few people from housekeeping staff came there and take her on wheelchair.

I predict there was nothing serious with that woman. While I analyze crying sound of that woman, I found that woman was actually communicate with me, without saying even a single word and even I couldn’t see her. She was wave the message that “I am in trouble, call someone to help me”, again and again. As a human, I could understand her ‘unspoken words’. Until that moment I never thought crying is also important part of life.

A baby often cries to keep his/her mother busy. When a baby cries, people don’t take it seriously as they know the reason of cry which may be thirst or hunger or to attract other people. A baby cries with whole heart and as loudly as he/she can. I can’t understand where they store so many tears in their small body. Heart and body of a baby are pure as they recently came from god’s home. That’s why their tears are also pure. Why a baby cries when he/she born? May be he/she didn’t want to give pain to his/her mother, but he/she is giving. Crying is way to apologize to his/her mother. But after few days, most of babies forgot the pain his/her mother bear during time of birth. Parents, family members and all others become happy when a baby can walk on his/her feet. But later they realize that now the child has more reason to cry. Now child may be cry due to fell down on floor, strike with furniture or anything like this.

Our childhood pass while we were crying for something and laughing after got that thing or until tears become empty. Until childhood, most of the people have same kind of reasons to cry. But as time pass, reason changes. Reason gets complex as life getting complex.

Some people can cry without tears. Crying is not a physical act, its emotional state of a person. We never cry, actually our heart cry. Heart is a link between body and soul. While crying it feels like some fluid from heart come out from eyes in form of tears. Those who can absorb or burn that fluid into their body can cry without tears. Those people cry for longer time, say for hours, days, months, years or sometime for whole lifetime. They are crying even while it seems that they are laughing. Not everyone can understand their tears.

How long one cannot cry? Everyone has to cry in his/her life. Crying is as necessary as laughing; this is one of the peculiar truths of life. Most of the people feel much relaxed after losing their tears. May be, sacred fluid from soul through the heart clean ‘dirt’ inside them. Oh! That’s why tears are salty.

Crying should not be consider as the physical act, this the way by which soul express itself.

Always remember, without soul we are just piece of meat and bones.

Always cry truly.

Don’t forget to smile.